Guest Melon Sky Blogger : Renee Alfieri
Interpersonal Skills for the Technical/Left Brain Thinker:
Bridging the Gap Generationally, Intellectually and with Flexibility
while Creating an Improved Model of Business Excellence in the
Workplace--The Sloan Award by Renee M. Alfieri, Executive Leadership
Coach & HR Consultant, Empowering Inquiry by Renee, LLC. www.empoweringinquiry.com | 







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| Renee@Empoweringinquiry.com
How
many times today do we hear “They really know what they are doing
technically, but they simply have no people skills” during the
discussion of a coworker’s career? We would like to have the best of
both worlds—good technical skills and good people skills—but a survey
of today’s managers quickly concludes it is all too rare we find such
an individual. Why?
Though companies base 80% of
their hiring decision on the technical skills —education, skills,
training and experience—85% of turnover is due to BEHAVIORAL
incompatibility--as it relates also to Emotional Intelligence! Today,
we are seeing that EQ (Emotional Quotient) is far surpassing IQ
(Intellectual Quotient in terms of those that are succeeding in
their careers versus those that are lower on Emotional Intelligence are
derailing much faster. That is, we hire people whose technical skills
are sufficient, but we fail to identify or analyze the people skills
required. Compounding the problem is that the behavioral style most
comfortable for the more technical positions is naturally less
comfortable in the people skills department. That is, what makes a
person enjoy technical work is the desire to look at “things” logically
(versus emotionally). If we are logical, we make a decision by first,
gathering all the facts. Then we study and analyze the data, research,
test, check the details, and finally make a decision that is incapable
of being incorrect. The most important goal is to be correct, the
biggest fear—to be wrong!
Other styles may value beating deadlines at all costs, keeping people
happy and motivated, keeping things the same to avoid conflict. But to
the more technical people - being correct and accurate takes all
precedent—it’s only logical.
Most
people who view “things” very logically also view “people” the same
way. While most Americans fall into the group that views “people” (as
well as “things”) emotionally, most technicians view both people and
things logically. This influences the way they both perceive and
communicate with others. Instead of the emotional factors of optimism,
warmth, enthusiasm, inspiration and extroversion, they have the logical
factors of reflection, facts, incisiveness and skepticism
(matter-of-fact). “People might talk a good game, but prove it to me;
actions speak louder than words.” Since they assume that this approach
is logical, and therefore correct and appropriate, they are surprised
when others describe them as somewhat aloof or cold. This further
illustrates that "left-brain thinking" is being challenged more and
more today by "right-brain--creative thinking/emotional types." We
need to embrace a "whole brain approach, and, as we are seeing today,
businesses are failing--those especially that are following rigid
parameters of procedural, entrenched rules and regulations, and
processes that are so rigid--a right-brain/creative type slowly dies in
their seat or, resigns from their management regime--not quite the
company for them!
They can point to the good
relationships they do have, but further examination usually reveals
that those relationships are limited to others with their same style -
other engineers, scientists, computer enthusiasts, auditors, and
quality control people. They indeed share the common value of a drive
to always be logical—perfection. Relationships outside their styles are
far more uncommon and usually the result of friends of a spouse or
relative of different style.
The technician’s lack of
people skills can be self-correcting within his/her own natural
behavioral style - a style which requires gathering and analyzing data.
The technician gathers and analyzes input on behavioral styles
different than his/her own to understand how to better communicate with
and motivate others.
Learning how to identify different
styles and how to adjust their styles to better communicate and
motivate is the prime directive. That is why companies such as Google
and Ernst & Young, are doing relatively well in Recruiting
practices and are seen as Companies of Choice. People "want" to work
at these companies since, they are creative, out-of-the box thinkers at
the highest seat of Leadership in walking the talk and doing the things
that my Generation X had been taught while in college--about
challenging the Baby Boomer's autocratic stance at top-down management
and leading a future with promise of a more participative approach.
While I am not advocating for one versus the other, I am imploring the
business world to accept some of its failure in missing the opportunity
to unite a force of cultural creatives with the logical thinking that
together when tied into a mission statement and driven through
performance management and MBO's can become the culture that wins!
Remember,
the millennial's are a breed unto their own--in order to harness their
energy and creativity and intelligence, micro-managing them and
"clocking" their time is not going to work! We need to approach the
future in business and industry by allowing a more flexible environment
in which we truly respect the people we hire for their intelligence and
capability, versus, babysitting and performancing-out our own
managerial mistakes.
I had attended the
NAMC Work/Life Conference -- Sustaining Business, Family & Life on
Long Island -- at The Crest Hollow Country Club on Friday, November 6,
2008 in which it was amply discussed that, we need to reach employees
where they are at! If we continue to ignore that the newer generations
are not as inclined to "do it" the same way "we"--their predecessors
did--nor should we expect that since, we are encouraging people to
think for themselves and to create--we will alienate them and not be
able to retain a consistent workforce, making employee engagement an
anachronism and oxymoron! The discussion ensued about how we
disintegrate employee's pride, hope and faith for a new tomorrow when
we refuse to allow people to have the creative freedom of a virtual
workplace or compressed workweeks, or flexible scheduling in order to
allow employee's to refuel themselves, feel appreciated and to continue
to create while feeling more balanced with a less restrictive work
environment.
Lastly, we need to promote organizations to
recognize this very important factor in creating balance and reducing
stress, while allowing our creative folks to grow and prosper and not
be confined to the left-brain, baby-boomer mentality as the only
modality of being considered a "top-performer." We often speak about
'face-time" in the office and that you need to be the first one in and
the last one out in order to be considered a true "fast-tracker" or
someone that is considered worthy of promoting.
I want to
point out to all businesses, large and small alike, your HR Team and
Leadership need to consider getting local and national visibility for
your efforts to use flexibility to enhance productivity, recruitment
and retention in a global, four-generation workforce.
Nominate
your organization by completing an on-line application for The Sloan
Award for Business Excellence in Workplace Flexibility. KPMG - Long
Island and Deloitte both are Award winners!
Go to www.whenworkworks.org
for model programs created by Sloan Award winners, research findings
and tips for managers and employees. The on-line application will be
available from this site in January, 2009. Awards will be announced by
NAMC later in the year. Send an email to: sloanawardli@gmail.com for more information about the award on Long Island--let's grow as a nation--and not keep it silowed.

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Written for Melon Sky Corporation by : Renee M. Alfieri, Executive
Leadership Coach & HR Consultant, Empowering Inquiry by Renee, LLC.
www.empoweringinquiry.com | 



















516-809-6294
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